How to teach your dog to spend time alone
Dogs are inherently social creatures. In their natural environment, they are never truly alone. As descendants of wolves, they have a strong genetic drive to seek companionship - whether with other dogs or the humans they bond with early in life. Being alone goes against their instincts, which is why some dogs struggle with separation.
Why Do Dogs Struggle with Being Alone?
Wolves, the ancestors of our domestic dogs, use howling as a way to locate their pack members when separated. This instinct remains in our dogs today. When left alone, many dogs whine, bark, or even howl - expressing their distress in the only way they know how. This isn’t a sign of bad behaviour; it’s simply a natural reaction to isolation.
The Wrong Approach: Reprimanding Your Dog
Punishing or scolding a dog for howling or showing signs of distress when left alone won’t solve the problem. In fact, it can make things worse by increasing their anxiety. Dogs don’t misbehave out of spite; they act based on instinct and emotion.
The Right Approach: Teaching Independence
Instead of punishment, we need to help dogs feel comfortable being alone. Teaching them independence is a gradual process:
Start Small – Leave your dog alone for short periods and gradually increase the duration.
Create Positive Associations – Give them a special treat or toy when you leave, so they associate your absence with something good.
Keep Departures and Arrivals Low-Key – Avoid dramatic goodbyes or greetings to help them stay calm.
Provide Mental and Physical Stimulation – A tired dog is less likely to be anxious when left alone. Regular exercise and puzzle toys can help.
With patience and training, your dog can learn that being alone isn’t something to fear. It’s all about building their confidence and trust.
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